The Tim McGraw Guide To Sales Success
Nashville 2004: The secrets to being a successful salesperson were released by an unnamed government agency in the form of the lyrics used for a country music song.
The artist chosen to encode ” The Secrets “, Tim McGraw, son of the late Tug McGraw and husband to Faith, did an admirable job of encoding, so it’ll be necessary for me to decode and decipher.
I’ve done so below, but use ” The Secrets “ at your own risk. Any extra taxes you have to pay on the increased number of sales you make is your own problem.
When I’m here on this highway
Breathing diesel smoke
Driving hard for hours
Trying to make that Memphis show
People always ask me
“Son what does it take
To reach out and touch your dreams?”
To them I always say
Some of us in the profession of selling for a living have to ( or get to ) spend a lot of hours driving down the highways between appointments.
It can wear on you. Before the days of satellite radio and iPods, it was tougher. Here in 2008, I always have hours of mp3’s waiting for me in the form of podcasts, teleseminars and interviews. I learn more now that I ever thought possible and I do it in between cellphone calls, stops for BBQ and catfish and, oh yeah, sales calls.
But even then you have to have a little something extra to keep you moving towards the next sales call and to keep you from stopping to waste time in a mall, at a driving range or just sitting in a park or parked watching sailboats.
Are you hungry?
Are you thirsty?
Is it a fire that burns you up inside?
How bad do you want it?
How bad do you need it?
Are you eating, sleeping, dreaming
With that one thing on your mind?
How bad do you want it?
How bad do you need it?
Cause if you want it all
You’ve got to lay it all out on the line
Hunger is one of ” The Secrets ” that keeps you moving forward. Hunger for more.
More money. More recognition. More power. More territory. More whatever it is that works for you, but you need hunger.
How bad do you want to stand out ? How bad do you want to beat last month’s sales numbers ? How bad do you want that new whatever it is you want ?
You cannot go into a day without a burning desire to get everything out of it that you can get and hope to succeed. Won’t work. Ain’t no free rides in the world of sales.
I get to make my living
Doing what I love
Every night I give my heart and soul
Sometimes that ain’t enough
But brother, if you’re like me
Looking down that road
Be careful of that wild wind, son
Sometimes it don’t let go
I get to do what I was meant to do and get paid for it. I played in a charity golf scramble today and one of the guys paired up with me asked me what it is I do.
For me, the answer was short, sweet and simple - ” I sell. “
No adjectives were necessary.
After we had played about 9 holes and he’d been around me for about 2 hours, he said it was easy to see why I do what I do.
” You’re a born salesman, aren’t you ? “
I don’t think people are born to sell, but I believe some of us were hardwired at birth to have the ability to learn to sell … and love every minute of it.
Can you feel it?
Can you taste it?
Can you hear it knocking at your door?
How bad do you want it?
How bad do you need it?
Are you eating, sleeping, dreaming
With that one thing on your mind?
How bad do you want it?
How bad do you need it?
Cause if you want it all
You’ve got to lay it all out on the line
I think about selling all day and night. When I’m eating, when I’m driving, when I’m talking.
18/7/365. I do sleep a little bit and I don’t know how to control my dreams, so I can’t say I dream about selling, although I do every now and then.
You have to see how selling correlates to every, single thing you come in connect with.
If you don’t see a roadside sign and see how to make it better, you need a new profession.
If you go into a store and you don’t think about how you could have helped the person who waited on you, get a new job.
Why ? Because you ain’t eatin’, sleepin’, dreamin’ with that one thing on your mind.
That’s another of ” The Secrets “, single, minded devotion to your craft.
There’s always a price you pay no matter what you do
If you’re gonna climb that mountain to the top
It always comes down to
How bad do you want it?
How bad do you need it?
Are you eating, sleeping, dreaming
With that one thing on your mind?
How bad do you want it?
How bad do you need it?
Cause if you want it all
You’ve got to lay it all out on the line
If someone tells you they’re in sales and it’s really easy, they’re either lying or they aren’t really a salesperson, just an order taker in a product rep-type of position.
There’s a price to pay for success.
” Opportunity is missed by most people, because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. ” ~ Thomas Edison
When you get up in the morning, you have to be ready to give it up all day.
” The Secrets “ are in the song, but every one of us will hear different ones, because we’re at different times in our lives, so you’ll have to listen to it yourself and then listen.
No, really, just listen.
Simple.
If Anthony Hopkins Was In Sales…
Me: Acting ?
Him: Acting.
The question before I asked before this astonished answer was:
What other profession does selling most closely resemble ?
Me: But a salesperson isn’t an actor.
Him: A good one is.
Me: How so ?
Him: They both control their emotions don’t they ?
This is getting tougher, so I’ll let the sales manager I was talking to tell you what he told me.
An actor or a salesman must control:
- His emotions
- His facial expressions
- His body movements
- His voice
Without control of all of these an actor can’t portray drama and if he doesn’t control all of these a salesman may create drama.
About now, the principle was starting to sink into my often closed, never quiet mind, so I asked:
In what other ways does a salesperson resemble an actor ?
A salesman or actor must be able exude confidence.
Not necessarily playing dumb, I asked - How ?
By the tone of his voice, the expression on his face, the words and facts he uses and how he weaves them into the conversation.
Basically, he said, by being sincere.
Suppose, I said, the salesperson isn’t all that sincere.
An honest salesperson never tries to sell anything that the prospect doesn’t really need, no more than an honest actor will take an phony part.
Hey Will Farrell, you listening ?!
Prince Goes Crazy and Sings Teaching Sells Theme Song !
Okay, I admit it. I listen to The Big ’80’s on my Sirius Satellite Radio…sometimes. Not all the time. Sometimes.
Today while driving between projects, I heard Prince do Let’s Go Crazy !
Then I got home and saw the latest additions and a list of coming attractions over at Teaching Sells.
Well, I couldn’t help myself, so I looked up the lyrics and “creatively adapted” them into the unofficial theme song for Brian and Tony.
If you can read this without hearing the tune in your head, you’re one in a million.
Make sure to click the graphic over in the right-hand sidebar before the $1 trial offer expires. Dude, it’s one, single dollar. One.
The Unofficial Teaching Sells Theme Song
Dearly beloved
We are gathered here today
to talk about this thing called Teaching Sells.
Electric course, Teaching Sells
It empowers you forever and that’s a mighty long time
But I’m here to tell you
There’s something else
Your expertise
Your brain has never ending knowledge
You can always sell some advice, day or night
So when you’re ready to profit on the internet
You know you want to, the Clark boys will make everything alright
Instead of asking them how much it costs
Ask them how much of your mind you can sell
‘Cuz on the internet
Things are much easier than in Web 1.0
In Web 2.0
You need a product of your own
And if the naysayers try to bring you down
Go crazy - start a membership site
If you don’t like the world you’re living in
Take a look around you
At least you got friends - Brian and Tony
You see I called some other guru’s
for a friendly word
They picked up the phone
Dropped it on the floor
A bunch of crap is all I heard
Are we gonna let the other guru’s
Bring us down
Oh, no Let’s Go!
Let’s go crazy
Let’s get nuts
Let’s look for the Teaching Sells banner
And click on it, let’s go!
We’re all excited
And we know why
It’s because
We’re all gonna make more money
And when we do (When we do)
Who’s it all for (Who’s it all for)
We live better now
And the customers come knocking on our door
Tell me, are we gonna let the other guru’s bring us down
Oh, no let’s go!
Let’s go crazy
Let’s get nuts
Look for the Teaching Sells banner
And click on it for a $1 trial offer !
That, my friends, is sheer genius at work … or derangement. One or the other, I’m sure.
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About That $1 Trial Offer…
Here’s your “fair warning”.
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Jump on board or be left behind as the rest of us outlearn, outearn and outlast the rest of you.
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Can A Restaurant Hostess Cause Bankruptcy ?
Have you ever lost a bet and had to buy lunch for a coworker ?
Me too. Lotsa times.
I sometimes use it as a means of creating a bond between those who are in a support position for me.
They don’t get as many perks as I do, so I lose bets to them every now and then and buy them a lunch or some donuts or whatever.
They love to get into my wallet and I love making ‘em feel like they got something over on me.
They like me more than any of the other sales people in our organization and that works in my favor.
It’s kinda like an organized bribe on my part and they never seem to notice that I lose almost every bet.
I lost another one last week to a young man whose butt I ride all the time, trying to get him to catch on to more things and trying to get him to be a bit better. When it starts to get to him, I lose a bet and he feels better.
I went to pick up our lunches and the hostess was, how shall we put this …. stupid ? An idiot ? Worthless ?
Yeah, those will do … for a start.
I asked her if I could pick up a couple of sandwiches to go and she said she would try to find someone to take my order, but ” … they all are real good at hiding out in their places and I have trouble finding them, but when I hide, they find me. “
At this point, I wasn’t real sure who “they” were, but I was hoping it wasn’t the people from I Am Legend or the things in The Mist.
About 15 minutes into my ordeal, which I won’t document here ( I’m saving it for a podcast ), a mother and son came in. The boy looked to be 14 to 16.
The hostess with the leastess says to the young man, ” Why ain’t you in school ? “
Not Hi, not welcome to XXX ( name withheld to protect my bank account ), not anything that you’d expect from a hostess.
The young man said, ” I’m homeschooled. ”
So The Brain says, ” Oh, that means you get to play hooky and eat lunch. “
I myself went to a public school and ate lunch every day, so I don’t know where she went or if she actually went.
So here’s the questions I have:
Will that mother and son ever eat there again ?
Will the management ever find out that she’s a complete and finely tuned utter fool ?
Can she and will she affect the repeat business ?
Would you let it bother you and would you go back if you were that mother and son ?
